Last week, Ruth and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary. We bought tickets to see the musical, Aladdin, which is something we normally wouldn’t do. In fact, we had a long conversation where we hemmed and hawed. Should we? Is it too expensive? We also toyed with the idea of saving up and seeing Anastasia on Broadway. Ultimately, Ruth decided we should just go for it, since our natural inclination is to put things off, especially things we’ve deemed “impractical.”
It was a wonderful evening together. It felt nice to do something special for our anniversary. I’m definitely the type of person who undervalues ceremony. “One day doesn’t matter as much as the other 364 days in between,” I tell myself. And yes, a single day does matter. It’s the marriage that matters. But an anniversary is about pausing to reflect on the past year. Consider the storms you’ve weathered and the calm waters you sailed through.
Some of my favorite memories of the past year:
- going on many walks around the neighborhood
- reaching many milestones, including finishing my bootcamp and her kicking butt with the GRE
- thinking up potential baby names for our future kiddo
- so much laughter
- sharing turtle sundaes from our favorite ice cream parlor
- going to Disney World for our honeymoon
- Ruth losing her wedding band a few months into our marriage
- our first Christmas as wife and wife
- getting to say “my wife” as often as possible